Chemong is back! & Pregnancy

Good Afternoon blog readers! On the previous post, Chemong has not return home since 4am. 3 days later in the afternoon, my mum whatsapp a poster of a found-missing cat. YES! its Chemong! So, that evening, my mum called the number on the poster and we collected Chemong from this nice neighbour who own 3 cats. Alhamdulillah. All the lady was in tears when Chemong finally reached home. And so, now he is forbidden to go out of the house. huhu.

Alright, as you can see the next topic I am going to talk about is Pregnancy. Ever since I've been trying to conceive for a second child, situation been quite sensitive to me. I know I shouldn't be sooooo upset because I at least have a child, while a few couples out there have been trying like mad to at least get a child. I've been reading article about a few misleads that I've been getting. The bias part is that whenever I notice a difference with my body or my period. I thought i was pregnant. So, I've checked what causes me, not to get pregnant. A few reasons i noticed was, Weight and Diet. So, I've cut down most of my carbs intake, especially potatoes. I'm a big Potato eater. I've seen my lifestyle is getting healthier. I secretly exercising via dancing. I get my body going until December 2015 when i realise i have this pain around my left chest and feeling breathless. And so, once again i thought i was pregnant. My menses was 3 days late. I told zan, I really need to get a pregnancy test, because if I am not pregnant, means it might be something else, but before i bought the pregnancy test, my menses came. Last year, on September 2015, my menses become irregular. I had spotting for 3 days, then 2 weeks later i got my menses. Then the next month, almost the whole month i bleed. I seek the doctor, and the doctor confirmed that I am not pregnant, and make an appointment to the hospital the following month. At the hospital i did the cervical test to check if i had cancer, Alhadulillah, I don't. And I did and ultrasound which explains the irregular bleeds. I had ovarian cyst. I asked the doctor if this is one if the reason why I couldn't get pregnant, and she said, NO. I was quite upset, not because of the cyst but because I still don't know why I am not pregnant. I also read an article about this couple who have been trying to conceive, and the lady got into a depression because they've been trying for a year already, but no positive on the pregnancy test. And most of the comment mention that, you shouldn't think so much about this. You can't be on a depression, that is one of the reason why you can't get pregnant. Yes, beside dieting and healthy lifestyle, you shoouldn't be so stresses about this or better still avoid being stress. I've watched one of this vlog yesterday, somehow i can relate to them. The link will be at the end of this blog post.

Will update in details on what I've researched on pregnancy. Till next time.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gg-8l8EQvCQ (AprilJustinTV)

Huggies,

NurfatinYusli

Broken Heart

Never i thought i would go through "Breaking Up" again after marriage. Unlike few post before this. Today I felt helpless. The first broken heart for 2016. And this time, this heart was broken for a new reason in life. 

Since 4am, 15Jan2016, Chemong left the house and never return ever since. I should have expect this since my dad did mention to leave the door open and if Chemong happen to leave and never return, means we must accept reality that he is indeed have move on to the "wild" life. Today incident was so unexpected. The only reason it touch me so much, is because i treat him like my new baby. And yes, INDEED i treat him like one of our family member. No one knows how deep this cut is. As shown above picture, that was taken yesterday when i realise that he really misses his mother, and wanted "breast milk". I was sad, cause i really couldnt do much. And the thought of it makes me believe that Allah s.w.t heard my prayers that Chemong indeed has meet with his mum, and that explain why he didn't come back home. I really hope he did meet up with his mother. And he do, I hope he could forgive Rawi for accidentally stepped and grab his tail. May we meet up again in Jannah, In syaa Allah. I really do treat you like a child. Thanks for filling up part of my heart. 

That is it for today post. I did absolutely nothing today because of this incident. Hope tomorrow will give me a new Title for a new blog post. *At least a happy one.

Huggies,

NurfatinYusli

Home-base Job

Reading through the title, many things come through my mind. Being independent is one thing and a mother is another. I've viewed one of this video that was recorded from this successful business woman. She is a single-parent to her only child. She mentioned in the video, that she need money, just like we need water, to survive. She thirst for money because no one is supporting her especially financial wise. I'm blessed to married to a responsible husband and also a father to Rawi. I was an independent woman. After married, money wasn't really an issue. But because to be a materialistic me, i prefer to spent it with my own money. So, being a mother, its my responsibility to be by my child side, whenever he need me, especially before and after school. I've asked zan, if its fine with him if I never work, he cool with it,  and i also asked what if i work, his replied is that he hope that i get a home base job. Alright, cut story short. Here are afew list of what home base job to me that i have vacant in my mind.

1. Seri Cahaya Catering
2. Teh Uncang Cafe

Yup. Business. I will describe further on this business soon. For now, this is my update. 

Huggies,

NurfatinYusli 

(honestly, i still dunno what to sign off as :D)

Rawi First Day and ChemongTheCat

Yeah! New post! Hmmmm, Maybe i should set a time to update my post at a specific timing. At least, this blog wont be that dull, right?

As you can see from the top photo. I'll update with what happen first. Chemong is the name of that male cat. He happen to came into our life as an accident. After a few hours of consideration, majority of my family members decided to keep him as a pet. Hell Yar! So many things to do and decide before keeping a pet here in Singapore. Especially CAT. Its already been 4 days since we had Chemong. He seems to know where to poop and pee since day 2. SMART CAT indeed. We too realize that he love to sleep and play at one corner. Soooo MELAYU! Cat do lepak. But on a corner, and only on a corner, CONFIRM malay cat. Even though its a male, he is very manja kind. Even when he wanna poop, he need someone to "teman" him, then can poop. Alright, enough of Chemong and his pooping manners,

Rawi first day of school happen today. He did well for his first day. We release him to his teacher, and he like, "Ohk". Oh, and his late for at least 10 minutes and his water bottle spilled in his bag. And he cried for milk when its time for him to go home. Oh yes! TIPS! Please label your child name on every stuff that belong to him/her. Or not you have to buy more, and you cant claim back your item even though you know its yours. Your Welcome! :D

Huggies,

OctoberBabies

Start Fresh! - Welcome 2016

I've been trying to upload a new blog since forever. If you can see my draft, there is indeed a few. So, here. Lets get started.

2015, I got a lot to say about you. You may not nice to me, but hey, i suppose things happen for good reasons. And i stick to that.

So, here a plain new blog. FOR NOW.

Here is a few things that you may want to look forward or at least expect from this blog.

1. Rawi OOTD photos
2. Seri Cahaya Catering Services
3. 25th-babies personal update
4. Baking & Cooking

Yup! That's it for now. I'll be editing this blog. Update again soon!

Cold Hugs,

25thBabies